Seduction is one area where you know how to do it or you do not. Yet guys desperately want to master this aspect. The reason is extremely simple. The art of Seduction is one of the most crucial aspects in today’s dating world. Yet most guys are clueless when it comes to seduction. Guys forget is that when it comes to women, not everything is straightforward. Today, we will give you some dating tips that should help you improve your seduction technique.
Take All The Initiative
When it comes to seducing a women, let me make one thing very clear – Guys have to make all the moves. Most guys expect women to reciprocate and seduce them; however, women usually reserve all their seduction techniques for the bedroom.
In order to seduce a woman, you will have to use your body language to communicate that you are interested in her. While most guys take the first step, they then make the mistake of growing cold and waiting for the woman to respond. All you will get from the woman is a hint that she is interested or not interested. If she shows interest, continue by using some of the pointers below.
Emotional Compatibility Is Important
Most men do not realize the importance of emotions in a women’s world. In fact, they find it hard to relate with a woman who wants to connect on an emotional level. However, when it comes to sex and seduction, a woman will only say yes to a man she feels comfortable with on an emotional level.
What you need to understand is that for a woman, sex is something more than pleasure. They want the man to help them feel special during sex by enjoying every part of her body during sex and after it. Without the emotional compatibility, it is just a few moments of pleasure and nothing after that.
Invite Her Over To Your Residence
Men make the biggest mistake when they want to have sex in a hotel or at the woman’s place or at a friend’s place. All this sends out the signals that for whatever reason, you do not want to be seen with her. The subsequent result will be she dumping you.
If you want to seduce a woman, use your residence. This will help the woman feel protected and comfortable around you. Setup the mood using candles and flowers – Yes – women love that and No – Do not buy the cheap stuff. Make dinner for her. If you cannot cook, get food from one of her favorite restaurants, but tell her from where you got it.
Treat Her And Her Body Like A Queen
I have known many men who are excellent when it comes to seducing a woman. However, when it comes to the actual sex part, they destroy all their efforts by making it a “Wham Bam Thank you maam” scenario.
What you have to realize is that seduction is one part of the puzzle with sex being the second part. When you pay attention to her body language during the seduction part and get her in the mood, carry it to the bedroom part and ensure that you treat her like a queen during and after sex.
Remember Seduction is an art that cannot be taught overnight. You will have to make an effort to seduce the woman of your dreams.
